Sunday, January 18, 2009

朋友的相处

阿拉伯传说中有两个朋友在沙漠中旅行,在旅途中的某点他们吵架了,一个还给了另外一个一记耳光。被打的觉得受辱,一言不语,在沙子上写下:"今天我的好朋友打了我一巴掌。"他们继续往前走。直到到了沃野,他们就决定停下。被打巴掌的那位差点淹死,幸好被朋友救起来了。被救起後,他拿了一把小剑在石头上刻了:"今天我的好朋友救了我一命。"

一旁好奇的朋友问说:为什麽我打了你以後,你要写在沙子上,而现在要刻在石头上呢?另个笑笑的回答说:当被一个朋友伤害时,要写在易忘的地方,风会负责抹去它;相反的如果被帮助,我们要把它刻在心里的深处,那里任何风都不能抹灭它。朋友的相处伤害往往是无心的,帮助却是真心的,忘记那些无心的伤害; 铭记那些对你真心帮助,你会发现这世上你有很多真心的朋友...

俗语说:你只需要花一分钟注意到一个人;一小时内变成朋友:一天让你爱上他;一但真心爱上 . . .你却需要花上一生的时间将他遗忘,直至喝下那孟婆汤...

在日常生活中,就算最要好的朋友也会有磨擦,我们也许会因这些磨擦而分开。但每当夜阑人静时,我们望向星空,总会看到过去的美好回忆。

眼泪知道

云在走 雨在飘
好多悲伤在风中笑
心在烧 泪在掉 你的背叛没有人知道
说爱我好不好
就当作是乞讨 哪怕说出口只需要一秒
你都不要
我的痛像把刀 血在流看得到
你却在 她怀抱 微笑
如果连自尊都已经不再需要 这个世界什么爱你买不到
天真全部可以倒掉 海誓山盟变成一种玩笑 如果连誓言都已经不再重要
还有什么事值得你去骄傲 所有承诺随风燃烧
给你的爱已经停止心跳
你可知道无路可逃
眼泪知道
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Thursday, January 15, 2009

Love just ain't enough

Sometimes when you love someone very much, you have to go through every tear, every heart-ache and every pain. It is because in the end, not how much you love but how much you hold on.

Real true love is having all the things go wrong but still having a special way to love despite of all the wrong things that had happened. Learn to forgive and love again

Listen contains the same letters as silent. Listen to the silence of the heart; hear what it says so that you’ll know what will make u happy.

Life is a series of steps,
Each step leads to joyful surprises and some with happy conclusions. Let the love in your heart be your guide as you step to your full potential.

Everyone must learn to be patient with loneliness. Happiness begins from within. If we can’t tolerate being alone, its more likely that we haven found our happiness yet.

Sometimes, things may change, plans may fail, joy may fades and excitements go.
Then, you will start to ask why. But when you look above, all worries depart.

There’s a danger in loving somebody too much
And it’s sad when you know it’s your heart u cant trust
There’s a reason why people don’t say who they are
Maybe sometimes love just ain’t enough

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

十九項寶貴人生經驗

1. 不要批評別人,因為批評有可能會傷害到寶貴的自尊.
2. 常常想到自己的福氣
3. 常讚美,常給他人重要感,惟必須是真誠的,無企圖的。
4. 你可以失敗,但不要忘記從失敗中獲取教訓。
5. 有時候得不到你想要的,反而是一種福氣。有多少企業家沒有考取台大;有多少成功的人沒有出國留學。
6. 要對規定瞭如指掌,這樣你才知道如何突破。
7. 不要讓細微爭執傷害到珍貴得友誼。
8. 承認自己的錯誤,進而會道歉的人最能贏得尊敬。
9. 每天有一段獨處時光。
10. 相信自己是一個有潛力的人。
11. 學會克服憂慮與壓力,否則如何在變化快速的社會存活。
12. 重要的事先做。
13. 態度積極,充滿熱忱一年輕人剛進入社會可能以為專業能力最重要。
14. 熱情的接受改變,但不要放棄你的價值觀。
15. 學會溝通,記住,聽比說還重要,怎麼說比說什麼重要。
16. 每年去一個你從未去過的地方。
17. 重視家庭生活一幸福的家庭氣氛是人生的基石。
18. 沉默有時是最好的回答。
19. 終身學習,永不懈怠。

Back to blogging...

Finally, got time to update my blog and view other’s blog. The reason was being too busy with work stuffs for previous past few weeks. Almost everyday stay for OT, even weekend also has to work. It’s tiring, but i kinda enjoy this kind of life. Since when, I started don't like "free' time anymore.

Previously, I’m quite enjoy with "free" time, everyday think of to leave office on time and reluctant to stay for OT. Now, I’m so scared of "free" time given. With such busy life, i felt like my life more meaningful and useful. (This is what ppl usually called “犯賤”.) :> One thing for sure, is I can sleep well now. Even my appetite also got big “improvement”, just always will find toilet after eating only...... :P

I started realized that i shouldn't put all my attention/heart on certain thing only. I should focus on other things also. So that, I wont "xxxx” when falling down. Won't be that hurt!! Everything has to thank to THEM lo.... thanks for sharing the time, thanks for paying the bills, thanks for coming so far away to accompany me...I don know how long I still need to take to accept/face the fact, but I wont disappoint you guys ya. ~the end~

Sunday, January 4, 2009

New Year 2009

New Year......
New Beginning.......
New Chapter.......
Everyone is asking, what are your wishes for 2009? How you spent the last day of 2008?
I remain silence. I don’t know what should I wish for and I dun dare too. 2008 ended with unhappy. I scared of 2009 too. For sure, 2008 also got happy things happened. Just the year 2008 ended with not as what I wish and want.

Life always full with obstacles, I understand this and is learning up to accept and adapt to the changes. It seems like many things I need to learn up and build myself. I swore that I want to make my life more wonderful in 2009. Not for others, just for myself. I wan to make my life more colorful in 2009.

Continuously I was being in the depression for past few weeks, its time for me to tidy up my mood and start to look forward. Thanks Franky and Fionne for being at my side during this moment. After lunch with u all, I felt better. You guy’s advices are much more useful for me. I will consider and think about it properly. Franky, just wan to let you know that your driving skill really scary le and Fionne, your drinking skill also very lousy la. So easily get drunk. Trouble me to take care of you only. Next time, pls pls dun get yourself drunk!!!! I dun wan to take care of you guys liao la, cause I wan to get drunk also…hiak hiak hiak. ……

Take this opportunity, wan to wish all my family members Happy New Year! Stay healthy and be happy always! Wish everyone Happy New Year also and everything is going smooth in 2009.